(Online Dating Industry Journal) A study that was published in the June 2007 issue of Sexuality Research & Social Policy, a journal of the National Sexuality Research Center, shows that 30% of female online daters, who have met someone online, had sex on the first date. The study was conducted, via surveys on various online dating services, by Paige M. Padgett, Ph.D.
Online Dating Magazine has written an article on the study. Here's a quote from the article:
"While the 30% of women having sex on the first date may surprise people, even more shocking is that out of that number, 77% of them didn't use any protection during the sexual encounters. Some online dating services make it easy for people to meet up for sexual encounters by offering "Intimate" or "Erotic" services to members."
Click here to read the entire article.
Joe's Comments
I have a copy of the 12-page study and have read the entire thing. The important thing to remember about this study is that the survey included some adult personals sites where the people using those services are generally looking to have sex. Unfortunately the study doesn't break down the percentage to give us more of an indication of what the differences are between adult services and general online dating services. But, then again, many general online dating services (like LavaLife) have "intimate" sections.
I don't know why online daters and most online dating services look at the subject of STDs as taboo. Why isn't more being done to educate online daters about safe sex practices. I was reading another article today about the growth of sexually transmitted diseases among seniors doing online dating. Obviously, you are never too young or too old to get an STD.
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One of the last body language signs that she is ready for a sexy kiss is when she starts moving her head in closer to yours. This is pretty close to an open invitation for you to kiss her. Once the flirting female tilts her head towards yours in a kissing position, you are now pretty safe in assuming you can kiss her.
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Posted by: Lisa Delgado | January 17, 2008 at 10:44 PM